So one of the exciting things that I can offer you is a formula for repairing a relationship that looks like it’s in difficulties. Believe it or not, it uses text messages to repair or reinforce your relationship! (That’s why it’s called text your ex back !)
The interesting thing is that this is also a formula for improving a relationship which isn’t in difficulties! This is because the same qualities which will bring people back together in reconciliation are the same qualities which help to ensure a relationship works smoothly and harmoniously at any time.
So what, you may be asking, are those qualities? Well, essentially they are the building of intimacy through non-threatening & non-violent language language, through sensitivity to another person’s needs and wishes and desires, and more than anything else, perhaps, they are a willingness to open your heart and trust.
Now of course one of the big issues most people in relationships is managing to trust others especially if they feel they have been let down repeatedly, a situation which is very likely to induce a lack of trust and an unwillingness to fully engage with another person in relationship.
Yet really, the only way that a relationship can fully succeed is when people open up to each other with the willingness to be vulnerable. Ensuring that you can do this without feeling wounded by any breach of trust — which is inevitable in any relationship, of any nature, between two human beings — depends on how much work you’ve done on your own emotional wounds.
It follows that if you haven’t done much therapy, or counselling, or group work, or shadow work, then you will inevitably find that difficulties arise during the course of your interactions with other people.
So if you’re not going to enter into a process of formal counselling or therapy, then you need some other sort of alternative which can assist you in building good relationships and building intimacy with another person. Fortunately, the Internet, as always, is at hand!
One of the people on the Internet who I have come to respect greatly for the time and effort that he’s put into building self-help programs for establishing intimacy with in relationships is a gentleman called Mike Fiore. He is responsible for writing Text Your Ex Back, a relationship advice program designed to restore trust intimacy and harmony.
How does it work? Well, the essence of this is that you can communicate more easily, in a more adult way (in the meaning of transactional analysis ), if you are working over a dispassionate form of link such as text messaging. By sending a carefully structures series of text messages, you will be able to communicate your true meaning, devoid of emotional misunderstandings that can interfere with the communication of your true love and affection.
I’m sure you can see how powerful a system of communication this could potentially be, giving you the opportunity to communicate with your partner in a way that avoids any misunderstandings and conflict that you may have experienced previously.
Certainly a lot of people have reported to me that Text Your Ex Back is a program that has enabled them to establish intimacy and reconnect after a breakup, and others have told me that it served a magnificent function in restoring excitement, honesty, and trust to their existing relationship.